Time Management for Busy Moms: Hacks to Help Balance Responsibilities and Self-Care
As moms, it’s easy to put our needs last to ensure the needs of our spouse and children are met. It’s done out of selflessness, but this can lead to burnout, resentment, and neglect of our own needs. In today’s post, I’d like to give you some encouragement and tips on time management for busy moms.
Juggling various responsibilities comes with the territory, but making time for things that bring you joy and allow for self-care is crucial. Balancing a healthy balance between family duties and personal well-being will ensure you can take time for yourself and maintain other duties you are responsible for.
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In this post, I’ll provide practical, time-saving techniques and organization tips to help you balance your life and encourage time management for busy moms. I hope this post helps you recognize the importance of caring for yourself. You deserve joy, recognition, and appreciation for all you do!
Some topics we’ll cover in this post about time management for busy moms:
Assess priorities and set realistic goals
Urgent vs. important matrix
Create a master schedule
Time-saving strategies for daily routines
Delegation and outsourcing
Embracing technology
Household management
Prioritizing self-care by utilizing time management for busy moms
Overcoming mom guilt and perfectionism
Assessing Your Priorities and Setting Realistic Goals
Identifying your priorities is crucial in creating a sustainable schedule for your home. Take time to think about what you want to focus on. For me, exercising and scheduling time to write are both incredibly important. I am working on an e-book about non-toxic living and creating weekly posts for my blog. I have created realistic goals for myself, including exercising at least 4 days a week and spending 1 to 2 hours 3 days a week writing posts or working on my e-book. Setting realistic goals for myself has made it easier to schedule time throughout my week for self-care and the activities I’ve deemed the most important. This has not only helped me create a schedule but allows me to tell my husband where I may need help when he takes over for me to step away.
What are some of your aspirations and responsibilities? Write them down in order of priority!
Urgent vs. Important
Decision-making can be complex, but using the urgent vs. important matrix lets you learn what is urgent, what needs immediate attention, and what personal activities you value most. It’s easy to get distracted and feel like you’re being pulled in multiple directions. Still, by learning to prioritize what is most important, you can balance your time between urgent responsibilities and important aspirations.
To read more about the urgent vs. important matrix, click here.
Creating a master schedule
The benefits of having a community schedule that includes each family member and their activities and appointments are endless. Sit down together weekly to review that week’s commitments, appointments, and responsibilities to ensure everyone knows what is happening. Creating a printable schedule is simple and can be done on Canva for free. Many have daily and weekly options that can be edited to fit your needs. Here is a great template you can edit to fit your needs. Syncing calendars on Google or iCal is another great option for spouses to see each other’s appointments and commitments.
Setting aside dedicated time for self-care and personal is crucial and should be scheduled like any other commitment. Schedule it throughout the week and stick to those scheduled times for self-care. You deserve it. While these tips mostly encourage time management for busy moms, everyone could benefit from this system. Once you start implementing a family schedule, it gets easier with time. Ensure each person can express their needs and responsibilities and schedule them throughout the week.
Time-saving strategies for daily routines
Time management and hacks for saving time are my specialty. It comes with the territory of having a large family. If you want to get anything done around here, you have to stick to your routine and schedule! Here are some of my favorite tips to save time to maximize your productivity:
Morning routine:
Mornings are notorious for being hectic. We have to be efficient to ensure that our oldest gets to school on time and our other children get to their school assignments. Waking up about 20 minutes before I need to start getting the kids ready helps me have a few minutes to prepare for the day, review our responsibilities, and prepare for the day.
To save on time, once a week, I bulk bake a few breakfast options, plus we always have bread and cinnamon bread on hand to keep things simple. (Side note: cereal is expensive and doesn’t keep my kids full. We tend to steer clear, but if you find that it works and saves time, this is another good option!)
Once it’s time to get the kids up and ready for the day, the older kids get dressed and then either start on breakfast or help with their younger siblings. They are incredibly helpful in the mornings, and I’m grateful. They know they don’t have to help, but they still offer.
Before our oldest went back to school, we didn’t have to worry about driving kids anywhere, but now that we have an added item on our schedule every morning, it forces us to be on time. It can be a little hectic sometimes, but it ensures that we start our morning at the same time each day and finish school assignments early.
Our children have chores they are responsible for in our home. They know to have free time to play video games or go outside, they must ensure their chores are finished. This helps teach them responsibility and takes some stress off of me.
Evening routine:
Our afternoon activities differ depending on the day, but we usually have quiet time so the younger ones can nap, and the older kids are free to play quietly in their rooms. This gives me time to step away and take a break and either work on my blog or get some of my daily cleaning done and then prep dinner.
In the evenings, the kids have showers, do evening chores to help shut down the house, and start their bedtime routine. This includes brushing their teeth, picking up their rooms, and setting out their clothes for the next day; plus, on evenings before their homeschool group, they pack their lunches and make sure their bags are by the door so the morning runs smoothly.
Having consistent routines helps us know we are getting essential responsibilities done daily and allows smoother transitions throughout the day. Since implementing these simple tips in our schedule, we have seen a tremendous shift in our productivity as a family. When my kids know what to expect and what comes next, they handle transitions much better.
Delegation and outsourcing
Hopefully, you’ve thought to delegate some of your responsibilities to other family members to help you. There is no reason to do it all yourself. Seek help from your family or hire help if you can afford it. If not, chat with your spouse and kids about splitting responsibilities and evening things out. Older children can help with household tasks while encouraging responsibility and independence.
Outsourcing tasks like cleaning when it fits the budget, grocery shopping, and meal prep can help free up precious time to allow you to do other tasks. Following these tips on time management for busy moms will help you include self-care in your routine without feeling like you’re neglecting other tasks on your to-do list.
Embracing technology and other tools
I am not one to encourage more screen time. I feel like most of us are too attached to our phones, but particular organization, scheduling, and time-saving apps are beneficial tools to help with time management for busy moms.
Apps I love for time management:
These apps have helped keep me on task and schedule, freeing time for other activities like writing or being with my family. Remember to balance using technology and stepping away to help avoid a sense of overwhelm. Technology has its place, but it’s crucial to balance your time.
Household management
Keeping your home organized and clutter-free is crucial in helping reduce stress and save time. Fewer items to clean and dust-free will help save time and reduce visual noise and frustration. If you are not using an item regularly or it no longer brings you joy, it’s okay to rehome it!
Decorating for holidays usually brings me a lot of joy, but it felt too overwhelming this year. I didn’t want more stuff that I was responsible for keeping dusted and cleaned on shelves around our home, so I pulled a few items out and left the rest in storage. I still get to decorate, but there’s minimal extra work for me.
Don’t be afraid to downsize to help lighten your load. It’s freeing in a way I can’t put into words. Plus, you’ll spend less time cleaning and organizing the more you purge from your home, allowing more time for other areas in your life.
If you struggle with visual noise (like me!), downsizing clutter and unused items around your home will relieve so much stress. For a long time, I struggled with filling closets with extra blankets, sheets, personal care products, etc., because I thought it was necessary. And then I realized how good it feels to have less. Less items I’m responsible for, fewer items to clean, just less. An empty closet does not need to be filled just because it’s available. Remember that.
Prioritizing self-care by utilizing time management for busy moms
Self-care is not selfish. Repeat that 3 times! As moms, self-care sometimes feels like another chore to check off our lists, but it shouldn’t be viewed that way. You deserve to step away and do things for yourself. Refill your cup and relax. Even 15-20 minutes a few times a week will help you feel better as a person and a mom. This constantly busy mentality that we fall into is not helpful. Delegate some tasks, step away, and do something that brings you joy. As much as you want to see your spouse or kids happy, you deserve that for yourself, too!
And if you’re still struggling with the idea of stepping away, know that statistically, moms who take time for themselves and find a hobby they enjoy are happier and more fulfilled than those who don’t. You can read more about that here.
Your job as a mother is incredible, and what you do matters. But just like a mom working full time outside the home and earning time off, you deserve to do the same. Your family will also benefit when you’re more relaxed and can handle everyday life without losing your cool.
Overcoming mom guilt and perfectionism
This comic from @Momlife_comics perfectly sums up what mom guilt can feel like!
Feeling pressure to be a perfect mom is more common than most realize. It’s an unfortunate reality, but it shouldn’t have to be! Instead of judging moms for our differences in opinion or parenting decisions, we should be applauding them. There is more than one right way to raise a child, and we should support each other.
Ever seen a mom at the store with a screaming child and thought about her skills as a parent? I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve done this. A wildfire child should not always be a signal of bad parenting choices. Some children are independent, and that’s not a bad thing! They’re trailblazers. Those children are the ones most likely to make a change and speak up when something isn’t right, and we should encourage that. The next time you see a mom struggling with a strong child, offer her a smile instead of a judgmental thought.
I fall short as a mom every day. I lose my cool, get frustrated when I have to repeat myself to my kids, and deal with mom guilt, wondering if I’m ruining my kids’ childhood every time I have a tough day. But my kids don’t think that. They don’t think I’m a bad mom for losing my patience. They want to spend time with me and be around me. I’ve done a lot of work on myself this year to improve my attitude, patience, and learned to step away at least a couple times a week, even just for a few minutes to take a break. Not only for myself but for them. Because when I balance my time and prioritize myself, I am a better mom for them. And they deserve that.
Conclusion
I know this post was pretty long, but I hope as you’ve read it, you’ve learned some new strategies for time management and the importance of self-care. You deserve to have hobbies, do things that bring you joy, and step away now and then. Finding balance is an ongoing process, but you’ll learn how to manage your time with practice.
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-M
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